As I sit in the calm of the evening, everyone else has gone to bed. I think of all the things that I believe anchor me to the earth. Why am I thinking about it? I was reading an article, of course. I read a lot; I would like to have a room full of books. While that is not possible just yet, I do spend most of my day reading in some form or another. Why is this important? Well it is how I thought of the topic. I was reading an article in a magazine. … [Read more...]
Tantra Breathing: Why sexuality?
September 29, 2008 By Leave a Comment
Tantra: Why sexuality? In the act of lovemaking the couple embodies the dyadic wholeness of the Supreme. TANTRIC sexual union resonates with the very foundational energies of the Universe: it captures, magnifies and re-directs the essential Cosmic Power of Life. It is therefore not by chance that sexual intercourse brings the most intense emotional experience that the human being can have while in the flesh. Therefore TANTRA uses it predominantly to create that overwhelming unifying energy. The … [Read more...]
Sex Magic – Sexual Focus
September 25, 2008 By Leave a Comment
A very interesting concept: The Process: Relax and breathe deeply. Breathing deeply is key to the success of Sex Magic. Take your time and relax your body, especially your jaw and belly.Identify what you want to create. It's important to choose something that really excites you. Make it specific. You can write it down or say it out loud as a mantra or affirmation. Make it in the present tense or as if it's a reality already (i.e., "I earn 100,000 per year.") … [Read more...]
Core Beliefs
September 22, 2008 By 2 Comments
Our culture seems addicted to three core beliefs about relationships that are almost guaranteed to create jealousy in even the most well adjusted people. Identifying and dismantling these beliefs is the most effective way of dealing with jealousy. Core belief #1 If my partner really loved me, there would not be any desire for an intimate or sexual relationship with anyone else. … [Read more...]
How to Make It Work – Tools for Healthy Polyamorous Relationships
September 18, 2008 By 2 Comments
1. Tell the Truth. Lasting relationships are built on trust. Trust is built on honesty. Honesty isn't hard and it's a good habit. Bite the bullet, tell the truth. If your relationship can't weather it, you are in the wrong relationship; but it probably can. Telling the truth is easier than lying, all rumor and myth to the contrary. Lies are a lot of work. They weigh you down and isolate you. Small lies get lonely and seek out bigger lies. Don't ask one lover to lie or keep secrets from others. … [Read more...]
Sacred Heart Tattoos – Sexy and Spiritual
September 8, 2008 By Leave a Comment
One of the most important things to remember when choosing a tattoo is that it should be something that is personally significant. Some people choose tattoos on a whim, without giving them much thought. But if you're a religious person, sacred heart tattoos are a great option to consider. It probably doesn't surprise you to learn that some of the most popular tattoos people choose are religious symbols and icons. Getting an image of the cross tattooed, for example, makes some Christians feel closer … [Read more...]
